This site is created and maintained by Shay Tiziano. Shay is vivacious femme switch with over a decade of experience educating, hosting, and performing in the BDSM community. Her background as a healthcare professional informs her passion for risk awareness education; as well as being an international presenter, she is a prominent self-suspender known for unique, dynamic rigs and prodigious performances. Shay is the author of Tying & Flying: Bondage for self-suspension, creator and writer of the bondage safety website, producer of the BDSM & bondage performance art event Twisted Windows, and author of the self-bondage chapter for the book "Better Bondage for Every Body." She identifies as a purveyor of perversion, pansexual polyamorist playslut, and alliteration fetishist!

Models/self-suspenders pictured on this site include Shay, Abbystract, nano_bites, Jade, Alicia T-Corn, Nikki_Darling, Honey_bare, WhiskyTangoFoxy, Marceline VQ, linworth, Kel Bowie, and Gabriel. Photo credit to Maestro Stefanos, Gabriel, The Silence, Honey_bare, Gary Mitchell Photo, and Sin.

This site was made possible in part through the generosity of Graydancer, Twisted_View, and the Pitt GRUE's "We Think You're GRUEvy" award. THANK YOU! Shay also has a leggings sponsor (yep, really) – support an awesome independent artist by getting some amazing leggings! 

Shay travels extensively teaching self-suspension and other topics — check this page for information on booking her to present at your event, or for private lessons. This site is a labor of love, creates zero dollars of profit (we counted... twice), and takes significant time and money to maintain. If you enjoyed the content, or are interested in contributing pictures/videos/articles, please get in touch via the form below!

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Self-Suspension Performance at Dark Odyssey: Winter Fire in DC

Self-Suspension Performance at Twisted Windows

Self-Suspension performance at Oakland Metro Operahouse